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we need a resting time in life

July 28th, 2008

Dearest Volker
I wish you all the best in your resting time. All of us need this time to recharge our bateries, reassamble our goals and deeds in this short life.
Sometimes we believe we are invencible and powerful all the time, but we are human beings and an organic institutions, that means we have some important and fundamental needs.
One of them, for sure, is our resting time, short or long, we have to have it. We shall have some wonderful time with our beloved family, friends and specially with ourselves. Enjoying the environment (inner and outer space).
Volker, please enjoy your time as much as you can. Remember, there is no perfect time nor perfect conditions from their own side, we must do them special and greatful and their all conditidions remind inside of yourself.
L&K
Marcelo

Buddhism

Vacation Break

July 28th, 2008

Dear Readers,

We are taking a few days off for vacation but will be back to you shortly.

To get a notification when we are back, please use the feed or email info(at)balamadana.com.

Thank you and enjoy the break with some relaxing meditation.

Love and Kindness
from
Volker and Marcelo at Balamada

www.balamadana.com

Buddhism, personal development

You puzzle me!

July 20th, 2008

Marcelo,

Thank you for your thoughts. If the leg is not our body and we are not it then who are we and why?

I was in a Christian church this morning where the minister said “the answer to the question (or one answer to the question) who you are is “you are a part of the Christian community”.”. Does that answer my questions. Certainly not.

I am me, myself, my soul and spirit in this body? Is that too simple?

Hawkins wrote “The Eye of the I” – I haven’t read this book yet but read his other book “Power vs. Force“. It is heavy reading and I am not 100% sure if I understood everything he tried to say.

If there are forces out there and things with a higher level of conscious, enlightened people maybe, then is there a way for me to make it too? And if I can make it, do I need my current body or can I move from this life to a rat’s body, to a cat’s body, to a human body and how many reincarnations does it take me to understand and be enlightened?

Who am I?

Can I not just live and act with the “winds”, the forces that change my life and not worry. Would I ever find the right path if I am just a feather in the wind? Or would I prefer to build my own path and by doing so, what would I gain? If I am not me, if what I thought was me, is not me?

Is it very important what our body does and if we live 10, 50, or 100 years because ourselves, e.g. our mind and soul lives for the eternity?

Have a lovely day, my friend.
Volker



circle of life

what is I?

July 18th, 2008

Hi Volker, a simple question or expression like: let me see!
Who is let to see?
Who is seeing?
Who has to let someone to see something?
What is these “whos” or “who”?
How many who I have?
May I have a who inside me?
I, me, myself…who’s that?
Is that possible a possesor to be a possetion?
How can an I to have a me, a myself, or to be a who?
How I can to have a my body, if I have a body that means my body is not a part of my I, even if I have a mind/soul is that means my mind/soul is not a part of my I? and then an I is compost by three parts: I, my body, my mind – but if this is right, it means they are not the same if they are not the same can you show me where is “I”, where is “my body” or where is “my mind”?
If you point me at some part of my body to say this is my body, be sure you are not point at any part that has a especificaly name such as my head, my leg, my arm, because the same object cannot have two names…likewise I cannot point at my hand and say this is my body, because it is my hand, or even it is a skin, a hair, a pore, a protein, a carbohidrate, an electron, a proton, a neutron and so forth…
So if i cannot point at those part, recognising them as my body, I also cannot say, those part are part of my body, because if i cannot find a body anywhere how can I say that some part of something is a thing? or if i say those thing are part od a big thing and I say they are the collection of something, such as: all parts of a body are the collection of a body, or if i cannot find a body without its parts or the collection of its parts, where is the body?
We can say the body is an expression of our I being selfexpressed by our mind, or the body doesn’t exist itself.
We need the mind to apprehende an image of a body, we need the body to apprehende an image of an I. ummmm….it means we exist only if the mind can apprehende, discriminate, identify and nominate something as I?
So, I am a mind!
All right, if I is a mind, where is it? Please do not point me at your brain! Brain is something physical, we know mind is not that!
Where is it? In occident cultures we normally point at our heart to say, this is the place where my mind is. Are you sure of that? Can you find an inmaterial object in a material place? Can we find air in a room, or is just a mere imputation or mere acceptance there is air in the room where we are.
What is air?
My friend there is nothing from its own side and everything is there perceived by our mind which can apprehende, discriminate, identify and nominate it by recognising it from previous experiences and learnigs (karma). In Buddhism we say the duality: there is no beggining and there is no ending, there is no going or coming and soever.
Tell me, explain to me, what are You, where are You without using another object to help me to try to follow you explanation and understanding what you are saying.
We can say this is a vase, we need our senses to perceive, identify, apprehende, discriminate and nominate it, all this senses come from our mind, we cannot find our mind, it exists from our previous experiences those are held by our mind which is held or belong to someone!

Shantideva says:
“Just as i am familiar with devepoling the thought “I”, “I”,
When perceiving my body, which arose from others’ sperm and blood,
So should I become familiar with developing the tought “I”, “I”,
When perceiving other’s bodies.

L&K

Marcelo

Buddhism

The me inside myself

July 16th, 2008

Are you saying there is no me in myself? There is nothing that is me because all there is – is just me?

Someone once said that there is no such thing as “my leg” because it is part of me, not my leg, your leg, it is just me. An extension of myself and not something that belongs to me but is part of me.

So therefore, the me inside myself is just me and not some object, isn’t it?

The soul, the thoughts are me and not the not something de-tached?

What do you think, Marcelo?

Volker

Buddhism

me, myself and I ?

July 15th, 2008

Hi Volker, ummmmm

the you in you?
That’s a deep question….in budhism Geshe-las always asks us: What is myself? Where is “I” or “me”?
You said you in you, is that meaning there is someone inside us? (soul, mind, heart and soever).
What’s that?
For me, following Buddha’s speech: it just a mere imputation, mere name that come from our need to have some object to input it on it and also it comes from our attachment over our self.
L&K
Marcelo

Buddhism

Losing a loved one

July 12th, 2008

Marcelo,

As you know I lost a loved one this week. And, we emailed non publicly about it.

Now, a week on, I thought maybe we should put our emails (maybe not direct copy paste but similar content) in this blog as well.

Therefore, maybe you can answer me this question, for me to see, whether I got it right:

When you die, the you in you (soul) loses all attachment to the body and the world. This attachment that causes suffering and we all go through all day. The little things, the big things.

All that is what you are losing but you are not losing out because ultimately you try to avoid the suffering anyway, don’t we? We trying to avoid suffering and when it comes to the point of dying, ourselves (the one who dies) probably enjoys letting go.

But why is it always so hard for the closest friends and family to let go and to see that the person that passed away is better off. Why is it easier to understand if someone is old and not when someone is young?

How long does it take to be reborn? What are we reborn as? Does it make a difference how young and in which way we die?

Marcelo,
I am sorry for all those questions. But I would like to know.

Love and Kindness from London
Volker

life and death

Mysterious Ways

July 7th, 2008

Hello,

Life goes mysterious ways. I am sorry to hear that your work has been destroyed. However, you know better than me, that most things are stored inside yourself. You do not need to have the laptop, the documents and office to make things work. They only make things easier. And, yes it would be good but your karma will get you back on track.

Some people say that things in life happen with a purpose. A purpose to learn from. About a year ago I drove a car through deep water thinking it would be fine. The 9 day old car (used car but 9 days on the road with me) did not survive, e.g. I had to get a new car. There was financial problems but overall I think I was grateful for the experience. Guess it sounds silly? Probably not, because I am 100% sure that this situation learned me something about how to deal with water, cars and cars in water in the future. It might save my life one day.

Your experience, any of our experiences, will have a positive outcome and it is not always obvious and not always easy to see that. I believe that today, when I got 4 new tyres for the car and a new exhaust, spending most of my day waiting in a garage, it was for the greater good. The greater good of me not having to fix a blown up tyre on the road side or an exhaust falling off during a day trip to the country side. We need to prepare for the unexpected. But we cannot get rid of the unexpected. Our washing machine had a part needing to be fixed and ran out in the kitchen. Little damage and easy repaired. It could have been worse.

We can be grateful to have enough water, food, drink and a roof over our heads, a job, someone who loves us and that we are alive. A lot of people are missing those basics. Moments like those remind me of how well we are off. But still, how quickly do we get used to our standards.

Marcelo, I hope you quickly recover from the incident and from your pain.

I will continue to enjoy a day off.

Love
Volker

circle of life

hope, actitude and motivation

July 7th, 2008

Hi Volker, good to hear from you as well.
My weeked started very well but finished not that good.
Someone had broken in to our office and stolen all out computer, money, and many of the most important documents of our business.
Well, now i am trying to learn a lot of things from this phenomena.
About my body, about my actual professional situation, Buddha says and talk to us about impermanence, empitness and I am deeply trying to apply those knowledges on my present causes and conditions.
About my body I can easily understand and extend these actual sicknesses from things that happened to me in the past of this life and previous life. So, today I have got pain on my body, those pains didn’t not exist yesterday and sooner they will desappear from my feelings and experiences.
From my work experiences, I can say: I must learn and accept that this situation is consequences from my Karma (same as my body’s condition), even if this flourished Karma is utterly hard and painful to accept. We have been working very hard this past semester and in one day, one hour, eveything goes a way from you.
Now is time to apply all my techniques, my knowledges, my background, my core competences to supperate it. It will not be easy but We will win this present obstacle. I am sure we will surpass all these negative Karma.
I will improve on my motivation and I will guide and help my colleagues to overcome those troubles and difficulties, with love and kind on my heart and not by any negative or destructive wishes or thoughts. I will not blame others then myself, these was a collective karma that hippening right now. Tomorrow it will end and new life will start.
L&K
Marcelo

Buddhism

Love and Happiness

July 6th, 2008

Marcelo,

The poem is nice. I slowly start re-charging my batteries and had a great weekend away in Scotland, attending a friend’s wedding. It was great to see people that are in love, people who love each other, cherish and share the love with a group of family and friends.

It was good to get away – although coming back to a broken washing machine – and I am off tomorrow. My aim is to charge batteries all day and work as little as possible. I need to find some time for myself and treat/re-treat myself spiritual wise.

Not good was is happening to your leg. I hope you feel better soon.

People often say it is only my body and that if you die, your body will return to the soil. However, even if you try to be detached from your body and if the body does not seem to be important for your spiritual development, the pain and suffering form it still influences your state of mind.

You cannot just cut the flesh away from your mind, even if you sometimes would like to. You need to look deep inside the body though to find yourself.

I hope you had a good weekend.

I send you my love!

circle of life, personal development